本字幕由TME AI技术生成 welcometoourdeepdivetoday oh yeah intoadvicefromacaterpiller youknowknowthatwonderfullystrangechapterfromallysadventuresandwonderland yesweregoingtobeunpacking howthischapterusesfantasyrighttotacklethosebigquestionsofidentityandchange yeah soletsjustgetrighttoitsoundsgoodrightawaywerejustthrownintoallysidentitycrisis yeah itsnotevenjustthatsheisphysicallychangingsize youknowshesquestioningwhosheislikeathercore soactlysheevensaystothecaterpwer ihardlyknowsoarejusttoprespresatleleastiknowwhoiwas whenigotupthismorning butithinkimustbeenchangedseveraltimesincethensotrue youknowthatfeelingofjustnotknowingwhoyouare yeah somethingsomethingthink thinkwecanrerelate yeah especiallylikeduringtimesoftransition yeah adolescenislikefullofthosemoments youknowsoallywhereyouareliterallyandfiguretivelygrowingandchangingyouregoingtofigureout whereyoufitin anditslikelookinginthemirrorandnotquiterecognizingthepersonstaringbackatyou yeah anditsnotevenjustaboutphysicalchanges rightitsaboutlikeourbeliefs ahourvalues ourunderstandingoftheworld youknow thinkabouthowalicekeepsforgettingthing oh yeah likehermultiplicationfeablesorthoseclassicpoeeshetriestoreite butkcarllisusingthesememorylapsestoshowhowfragileorsenseofselfcanberightespeciallywhenwerelikebombbardedwithnewexperiencesandinformation likethattipofthetonguefeelings butonamuchlargescale yeah yesyouknowyouknewsomething butitsjustoutofreachtotally anditmakesyouquestion everythingdoesntitpreciseandthistiisintoanotherkeythemeofthechapter okay thatpoweroflanguage oh ahaliceisstruggletocommunicate yeah toreremembersimpleremph ithighghtshowwordscanbeunreliable okay howananingisconstantlyshiftinginvolving yeah imeanwerelytlylanguagetounderstandtheworld yeah toconnectwitheachotherright butwhathappenswhenthewordsthemselvesbecomesoslipperyandunreliable itcreatesasenseofchaosanduncertain whichisisextlywhatwhatelisisexperiencinginwonderland yeah butitalsopushesustoquestionassumptions okay butitlookbeyondthesurfaceofthings yeah afteralloflanguagecantbetrusted whatcanwerelyonthatisgoodquestion yeah butbeforewelikeexperiiristoofardownthatrabehohleright letstalkaboutthecaterpillsadvice okay hetellsalicekeepyourtemper onesidewillmakeyougrowtaller andtheothersidewillmakeyougrowshorter itsoundsalmostlikesomethingoutoffortunecookietheresrefullylikeanelementofsautire hereyouknow yeah karllispokingfunupthewayadultsoftengivevgueorunhelpfuladvsedyoungpeople especially whenitcomestonavigatingthecomplexxtiesoflife anditsnotjustthevaguessitslikethedelivery youknowthecaterpillerissoaloofandnonshelanwpupufingawayonhishooaashedispensesthesecypticticprounounments it ithihighlightsthatabsurityityofexpectingistheanswerstodifficultquestion right youknowlifeismessyandunpredictable yeah sometimesthebestwecandoislearntoadaptandmakethemostofthesituation itsinterestingthoughbecauseeventhoughthecatapilillaradviceseemsuselesslikeonthesurface alicedoeseventuallyfigureouthowtousethemushroom yeahtocontrolhersizechanges yeah evenifitisabithalfhazard exactlytheresasubtlemessage thereabouttakingcontrolofyourowngrowth evenifyoudonthavealltheanswersright alalesexperimentingmakingchoiceslearningfromhermistakes extrueshenotpassivelyacceptingherfate rightshesactivelyshapingherownexperience whichissomethingwecanalllearnright right forsure notevenwhenthingsfeelchaoticcanunpredictableumwehavemoreagencythanwethink andthatbringsustoanotherfascinatingencountalisrunningwiththepigeon oh yeah itslikeaperfectexampleofhowquicklywejumptoconclusionsbasedonappearances yes thepigeonseesaliceslongneckandimmediatelyassumesshemustbeassertain yesitshilariousandabsurd but是的 对的 alsoabitandsettlingwhenyouthinkabouthowoftenwedothesamethinginreallifesotrue youknowwejudgepeoplebasedontheirlooks theyreclothestheirsocialmediaprofile rightbecauseouttakingthetimetotrulyunderstandthemknowthepigeonslogicisflawed ofcourseright justbecauselittlegirlsusuallydonthavelongthatyeahdoesntmeanitsimpossible rightbutthats thedangeroflikerigidthinkingandpreconceivednotion totallyitdoesntmeansustothelexitiesoftheworldandpreventsusfromseeingthings clearlyitslikethoseopticalillusion yeah whereyouseeonethingatfirst butthenyoureperspectiveshift andyourealizeedsomethingelseentirely yeah wehavetobewillingtoquestion ourassumptions yeah tolookfortheunexpectedyebeopentothepossibilitythatwemightbewrongwellsaidyeah andthisisespeciallyrelevantintodaysworld youknowoversaidwereconstantlybombardedwithinformationyeah anditseasytogetcaughtupinsnapjudgementsandsuperficialinterpretation itslikewerealllivinginakindofwonderland youknowsurroundedbybizarrecharactersandconfusingsituationyeah butinsteadofgivingintothechaosrightwehavethepowertochoosehowwerespondhowwethatprettheworldandultimatelywhowewanttobethatsapowerfulthought yeah andonethatwewillcontinuetoexploreaswedivedeeperintothischapter forsure butfornowaspause andletthatideassinkinforamoment yeah youknowitfascinatinghowthesetheenmesofidentityandperceptionwevetogetherthroughoutthechapter yeah allysjourneyisntjustaboutlikefindingherself itsaboutunderstandinghowtheworldseesher yeah andhowthoseperceptionsshapedherrealitythatsseenwiththepigeonreallybringsthathomeyeah totallymeanheresalicetryingtoexplainwhosheis butthepigeonissofixatedonitsownideaofwhataserpentshouldbeyeah butitcantevenhearher exactlyithighlightsthedangeroflettingpreconceivenotionsjustcloudourjudgmentthepigeonsfearandprejudicepreventitfromseeingaliceforwhoshetrulyisrightandunfortunatelythatsaveryhumantendency andahevenjustafewassumpts youknowyeah wherewemakeassumptionsaboutpeoplebasedontheirappearance therebackgroundrightwereevenjustafewsnippbitsofinformationweveleanedonline yeah itslikewereallwearingtheseinvisiblelabels thatothersprojectontousitstrue andsometimesthoselabelscanbeincrediblylimiting youknow yeah evendamagingright theycanpreventusfromforminggenuineconnections fromseeingthefullpotentialandourselvesandotherswhichmakesmethinkaboutalysisconststencesizechanges oh yeah itsnotjustaboutphphysicalformflutiating itsabouthowshefeelsinrelationtotheworldaroundherexactoneminuteshestoweringovereveryone thenextshesfeelingsmallandinsignificantitsapowerfulmetaphorforthosefeelingsofinsecurityandselfdoubt thatweallexperienceatsomepointinourlives youknow thinkaboutthosetimeswhenyoufeltoutofplacelikeyoureeithertoomuchornotenough yeah alyysjourneythroughwonderlandexternnalizesthoseinternalstrugglesmakingthemvisibleandrelaatable anditsnotjustaboutfittinginnoabsolutely itsaboutfindingthatbalancebetweenwhoweareontheinside yeah andhowwepresentourselvestotheworld itsaboutunderstandingthatouridentityisnotfixedorstaticright itsconstantlyevolvingandadaptingtothecircumstanceswefindourselvesinsohowdoesalicenavigatethiseverchanginglandscape wellmemeshessurroundedbytheseecentriccharactersnonsensicalrules aworldthatseemstojustdefyalllogic itwouldbeeasytojustdefup andthis thisistoomuch butshe shedoesntdoessheno andthatwhatsoinspiringaboutalice yeah shekeepspushingalllogic even even whenshesfrustratedconfusedordownrightterrify shesgotthatstuborndetermination yes thatrefusaltobedefeatedbytheabsurityofitalltotally andithinkthatsequality wecanallcultivyitespecially whenwerefacacewithchallengesthatseeminsurounableresilience adaptability asenseofhumorum thesearethetools aliceusestonavigatewonderlandright andofthesametools weneedtonavigatethecomplexitiesofourownlives 是的 对的 thatremindsmeofanotherinterestingaspectofthischapter okay thethemeofcontrolwillratherthelack thereofimeanalalisisconstantlybeingpuledandpushedindifferentdirections forcedtoadapttosituations shedoesntfullyunderstanditslikeshestrytosolveapuzzlewithpiecesthatkeepchangingshape exactly andyettherearemoments whenshedoesmanagetoexertsomecontrol evenifsheisntaroundaboutwaylikefiguringouthowtousethemushroomtochangehersize yes evenifitsnotalwaysdictright shestaking whatsheslearnedexperimenting tryingtofindwaystomakeitworkforher exactly itsareminder thatthateven whenwefeelpowerless yeahwealwayshavechoices wecanchoosehowwereact howweinterpretthesituation andwhatstepswetakenext itsaboutfindingthatagencywithinourselves yeseveninthemidtivechaosandrecognizingthatsometimesthejourneyitselfismoreimportantthanthedestination okay alicedoesntknowwhereshesgoingorwhatshllfindalongthewayright butshesembracingtheadventurewithasenseofcuriosityandwonder andisntthatwhatmakeslifesointeresting youresure theunexpectedtwistsinturn yeah themomentsofdiscoveryandgrowththatcomefromsteppingoutsideofourcomfortsounds absolutely itsaboutembracingtheunknown umevenwhenitsalittle it itscaryalittlebitconfusingandmaybeevenalittlebitupnown andonthatnono不是 letsturnourattentionbacktothatelusiveconceptofidentity okay meanbytheendofthechapter doesalicehaveaclearsenseofwhosheisorhasshesimplyembracethefactthatshemightneverhave havetheanswersrightthatsthegreatquestion andithinktheanswerissomewherebebetweenokalalysjourneyandwonderlandisless aboutfindingadefinitiveanswertowhoamiyeah andmoreaboutlearningtolivewiththeuncertainty theconstantfluxofbeing itsaboutrecognizingthatidentityisnotafixedpointexactly butaprocessofongoingdiscoveryandevolution andthatprocesscanbemessyconfusingandevenabitfrustratingattimesyeah butitsalsoincrediblyliberating youknow becauseitallowsustoconstantlygrowlearnandbecomemorefullyourselvessoinasenseelsesjourneythroughwonderlandisametaphorforthehumanexperience itselfitiswereontryingfindfindwaywaymakesenseofitandfigureoutwhoweareinthemistofitallsojustlikealiceyouknow wemightencounterchallenges setbacksandmomentsofprofoundselfdoubt yeah butifwecancultivatethatsamesenseofcuriosity resilienceandopenmindinessright wemightjustfindthatthejourneyitselfisthemostwardingpartoftheadventure itsaboutembracingthequestions theuncertaintyandaconstantevolutionofself yesandperhapsinthewordsofthewisecaterpiller learningtokeepourtemper aswenavigatethewondousunpredictableworld wecalllife youknowitsfunny howeventhoughalyssadventresandwonderlandisconsideredachildrensbook itstillraisesthesepreprofoundcondition itsthehumancondition itsaclassicforareason ah ahknowknowenenathathwimmicalsursurfacecarlsisexploringthesethemesthatresonatewithusatanyage totallyidentityperception thelimitsoflanguageandlogic andinthischapter advicefromacaterpiller weseealicegrapplingwithallofthesethingsatonceatthesametime itslikeshescaughtinthisworld windofchangeanduncertainty tryingtomakesenseofaworld thatsconstantlyshiftingaroundher whichletsfaceitisaprettyaccuratereflectionofthehumanexperience yeah forsure wereallconstantlyvovolin yeah wettingtynewsituations tryingtofigureoutwherewefitinyeah wereallonourownpersonaljourneysthroughwonderland rightencounteringthesestrangecharacters yeah nonsensicalrulesandthosemoments wherewefeellikeweveshunkorgrowntoanimpossiblesize exactlyandjustlikealice wehavetofindwaystonavigatethosechallenges yeah tokeepourheadsabovewater evenwhenitfeelslikeweredrowinabsurdity oneofthethingsthatstruckmeaboutthischapterwashowcareplayswiththeideaoflanguageandmeaning oh yeah imeanalicekeepsmethisgeaningrecitingpoemsincorrectlyandstrugglingtocommunicatewiththeothercharacters itsalmostasifthewordsthemselvesarelosingtheirpower theresabrilliantlayerofsatire therekarllishighlightingtheinherentslipperinessoflanguage howmeaningisnotalwaysfixedorabsolute andthishassomeinterestingimplicationsforhowwecommunicate howweinterttheworld andhowweunderstandourourvesvesacyrealializezecommcommunicationisnotalwaysstraightforwardaswethinkitisno itsnottheresalwaysroomformisinterpretation forthoselostandtranslationmoments wherewhatwesayisnotnececearilywiththeotherpersonhereexexactly andthisisespeciallyrelevantintodays yeah wheresomuchofourcommunicationhappensonlinethroughtextmessages socialmediapostsandsound byitseasytomisunderstandeachother togetcaughtupinmisinterpretationsandasmpmptions andtolosesightofthenuancesandcomplextiesofhumaninouraction itslikegroirallspeakingdifferentlanguages evenwhenwereusingthesamewords thatsagreatanalogy yeah anditmakesyourealizetheimportanceofactivelisteningofbeing mindfulofhowwecommunicate andofbeingwillingtoaskforclarifiction whenneededitsabouttakingthetimetotrulyunderstandwhattheotherpersonissayingnotjustwhatwethinktheyresaying wellsaid said andithinkthisback backtothemeofperpertiontion wewevebeendisperssingokay thewayweseetheworld thewayweinterpretinformationwellsaid wayinteracactofothersisallfilterthroughourownuniquelensofexperiences biasesandbeliefs andthatlenscanbedistorted canitokay imeanweseeinthescene withthepigeon whomistakesaliceforasurptright butitsolelyonherlongneck justalongneck itsahumousexample rightbutspeakskstoadeepertruth abouthowquicklywejumptoconclusionsbasedonappearances absolutelythepigeonslogicisflawed ofcourse yeah thatsacommonhumanerror wetendtocategoryprice tolabel toputthingsinboxes yeah basedonourlimitedunderstandingright andthiscanleadtoallsortsofmisunderstandings prejudicesandmissedopportunities itmakesyouwonder howmanytimeswevemisjujugessomeonemadeunfairassumptionorsimplyfailedtoseethefullpicture yeah weweretooquicktojudge basedonsurfaceappearances itsasobringthought anditsaremindertoapproachtheworldwithabitmorehumilitycuriosityandopenmindenelytoquestionourassumptionstolookfortheunexpectedandtobewillingtoadmitwhenwerewrong soifwereallinthesepersonaljneneys throughwderland navigatingconfusinglandscaesandencounteringstrangecharacters what whatsome someofthekeytakewaysfromadvice fromacatappillar thatwecanapplytoourownlives ithinkoneofthemostimportantlessonsastheimportanceofembracingtheunknownokay alicedoesntknowwhereshesgoing whatchallengesshallfaceorevenwhoshallbecomealongtheway butshekeeemovingforwardardwithamixofcuriositycourageandatouchofthatchildlikewonder thatallowshertoseethemagicinthemundane itsaboutlettinggooftheneedforcertainty forcontrolandforeasyanswersright lifeisrarelyastraightpath yeah itsfulloftwisinturnsunexpecteddetoursandthosemoments wherewefeellikewefallendownaraddhole andjustlikeuswe wehavefindways waysadapttolearnfromourexperiences andtokeepgrowing evenwhenitsuncomfortableorchallenginging aboutcultivatingthatresilience andto toabilityaboutbackbackfromsetbacksolearnfromourmistakes andtokeepmovingforward evenwhenwedontknowwhatliesaheadandperhapsmostimportantleadsaboutrememberingtokeepthatsenseofwonderalive yes eveninthemiddofofkosandevencertaintytoseetheworldwithfresheyestofindenjoyintheunexpectedandtoneverstopaskingquestions evenwhentheanswerseemelusive soaswewrapupthisdeepdiveintoadvicefromacaterpiller ihopeyoullwalkaway withtherenewedappreciationforthepowerofstoriestoilluminatethehumanexperience experiencetochallgegeasmpmptions toininireustoembracethewonderers unpredictablejourneyoflifeandjustlikealice mayweallfindthestrength encouragetonavigateourownwonderlends toembracetheunknown andtoemergefromtheexperience alittlebitwiser alittlebitstrongerandalittlebmoreourselves